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Amazing Things Happen When You Just Show Up

Such an amazing post by Donald Miller… amazing what happens when we just show up!

Last year I interviewed Pete Carroll, head coach of the Seattle Seahawks. We spent two hours in his Seattle office, talking about leadership, humility, success, family, spirituality, politics and everything else save the one topic he speaks of so often, football.

I interviewed Coach Carroll to learn more about the work he started with inner-city, at-risk kids while he was coaching the USC Trojans in LA. Several years ago Coach Carroll started a program called “A Better L.A.” providing opportunities for under-privileged kids in the inner city. He has since duplicated that program in Seattle.

Coach Carroll started the program after driving to work at USC one morning and hearing a report about gun violence between gang members in a nearby neighborhood. The next day he learned of another killing and by the end of the week eleven gang members were dead.

Most of us would have heard similar reports and felt bad for the kids and their families, but we wouldn’t have associated ourselves with a solution. Perhaps if we were social workers we’d know a theory or a program, but Coach wasn’t a social worker. He was running the most successful college football operation in the country.

And here is where Coach Carroll differs from most of us. Coach didn’t start a committee to research the issue or read a book or call around looking for information. Instead, he got into his car, drove into the neighborhood where the violence occurred and befriended gang members. He helped their mothers carry in groceries, played basketball with them on the courts and invited them to come watch the USC football practices.

I’d known all this before interviewing Coach Carroll, so my question going in was why? Why did you assume you could be a solution? And why did you care?

The answer was two-fold, and someday I’ll release the book detailing this and many more interviews. But for now, I’ll give you the top two things I learned about not only Pete Carroll but about you and me, too.

Here they are:

First he believed before we help others we needed to get over ourselves. I asked coach why he cared about those kids, and he struggled to answer. He wasn’t sure, really. He just did and he didn’t understand why anybody else wouldn’t. I pointed out that most people are too busy dealing with their own lives and their own stories to care about anybody else.

I wondered if Pete Carroll weren’t some kind of exceptional humanitarian or something. But Coach set me straight. He said early on he was consumed with winning, and to some degree he still is (though he cares more about helping other people win than himself, another key to his success as a leader) but after achieving success at an early age, he found the experiences somewhat empty. He got over himself (my words, not his) and realized he was much more fulfilled leading teams of people toward success, whether in football or life. It wasn’t enough to win on his own, he wanted to win with people he cared about.

Secondly, he believed we had the power to change things. Like few people I’ve met (although I’ve met a few including Bob Goff and Tom Ritchey) Coach Carroll believed he was the solution to a problem. He wasn’t an expert on the inner city or on gang violence, but he knew he was intelligent and physically capable to go in and figure it out. He took action, he moved, he went to them and listened and made a massive contribution to the well being of others.

I can’t stress enough what a massive paradigm shift this is for most people. As we argue about who has the solution to many of life’s problems, few of us understand the absolute truth that we are the solution. If somebody is hungry, we can feed them. If somebody lacks education, we can teach them. If somebody is lonely, we can befriend them. There was no part of Pete Carroll’s personality that didn’t believe he could be a solution to the problems around him. If that doesn’t define a leader, I don’t know what does.

After meeting with Coach Carroll and reading his book Win Forever, I’ve had a paradigm shift. I’ve stopped complaining about whose solution is better, I’ve stopped letting my social action get bogged down in talks about theory. If there’s a problem, I ask what I can do, not what should be done.

What problems around you could you solve? What hurts in the world could you contribute a solution to? And what scares you about taking action?

Reclaim The Morning

This was a guest post on Michael Hyatts blog by Kimanzi Constable. He blogs about finding your passion in your work and practical helps for everyday work issues. This is a good follow up to Sundays message one reclaim the morning. If you are on twitter use the hashtag#reclaimthemorning and tweet what God is speaking or share a verse.

Tell me if this scenario sounds familiar. You hear the alarm clock go off in the morning. You just need a couple more minutes of sleep, so you hit the snooze button. Ten minutes later, the alarm clock goes off, but you’re already sound asleep. Thirty minutes later, you wake up in a panic. You just overslept and are going to be late. You rush out of bed, throw on whatever you can find and head to the bathroom. You look at your toothbrush and tell yourself there’s no time. You gargle, grab whatever is in the fridge for lunch and you’re off.

As you’re heading to the door, you see your Bible on the table, but you don’t have time. You get in your car, praying there will be no traffic. You get on the highway, and it’s bumper-to-bumper.

Whatever shot you had of having a good day is gone. The whole way to work, you’re thinking up excuses of why you’re late. The rest of your day, you’re dropping things and running into people. It becomes one of those days you completely want to forget. You get home, and you’re already worked up. Any little thing sets you off. You can’t wait for bed!

Now, your day may not have gone exactly like this, but you’ve had days that were close, right? How you spend the first hour of your day will determine how well the rest of it goes. You can have a bad first hour and turn it around, but nine times out of ten, if you have a bad first hour, the rest of your day is ruined. Here are four tips for having a great first hour of the day:

  1.  Get things prepared the night before. Right before you go to bed, set yourself up for the next day. Get your clothes ready, and put them in a spot where you can grab them in the morning. If you have to iron, do it that night.Grab everything you’ll need in the morning and put it in one spot, so you can wake up and have it ready to go. If you make your own lunch, have it ready in the fridge. Do as much prep work as you can to eliminate the hectic morning routine.
  2.  Get enough sleep. You have to get a good amount of rest. What that amount is—that’s up to you. For the last ten years, I have delivered bread, waking up as early as nine p.m. to three a.m. at the latest.For the longest time I would get between two to four hours of sleep. Do I need to tell you how rough the first hour of the day was for me? When I got home I wouldn’t make it if I didn’t take a nap. The problem was the nap would cut into whatever time I wanted to write, do activities with my family, or any projects I wanted to do. Your body needs enough sleep for you to function properly all day. It’s just not natural to not get enough sleep.
  3. Get up a little early and have devotions. That quite time you spend in the morning, reading God’s Word and praying, will calm you and prepare you for the day.The verses you read as a part of that first hour of the morning will be your shield. Even if you can only spare twenty minutes, it can go a long way to ensure a positive, stress-free day.
  4. Use every minute of that first hour wisely. When I started the bread route, I would do devotions for twenty minutes, then my morning workout for another twenty minutes, then shower and head to work.During that workout time, I would listen to some soothing music or a podcast that inspired me. Using every minute of that first hour helped keep me focused throughout the day. I was intentional with my time, which led to amazing results.

  5. Are you in a “funk” lately and wonder why? You might feel like that those few minutes of sleep is just what your body needs, but that’s not true.

    When that alarm clock goes off, wake up and hit the ground running. Make sure you give yourself the proper amount of rest the night before. Spend that time with the Lord and prepare yourself for all the stresses life will throw at you. And get encouraged with some of the amazing content we all have available to us.

    Allow God to speak over you that you are His beloved, let your identity be in Christ and then live that day secure with who you are in Him!

     #reclaimthemorning

Kony and Complexity

I was directed to this by friend Andrew Rennie…

Rattling around in my brain last night were words from the second chapter of St. Paul’s letter to the Philippians:

Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus, 

who, though he was in the form of God,
   did not regard equality with God
   as something to be exploited, 
but emptied himself,
   taking the form of a slave,
   being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form, 
   he humbled himself
   and became obedient to the point of death—
   even death on a cross.

And I wondered, sitting around the table with friends over a shared meal, what, if anything, this whole Kony campaign had to do with the way of Jesus.

Countless videos and posts have already stated that this campaign is, perhaps, a decade too late. What concerns me now, however, is the way in which this campaign – high production values and all – has filtered into the church. I’m glad that we’re talking about it.

I just hope that if we do plan on discussing it in the church, we do so in light of the gospel of Christ, and pray, with Paul, that the same mind be in us that was in Christ Jesus. I shared in a previous post that, if nothing else, this should open us up to an honest dialogue about the issues at play, and recommended a few resources, including Emmanuel Katongole’s “Sacrifice of Africa.”

Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove highlights one story from that book in a blog he published earlier today. I think it’s worth re-posting:

Is it possible to respond to Kony with the power of Jesus’ nonviolent love?

For me, this is not a speculative question. I know the answer is “yes” because I have met her. Her name is Angelina Atyam. (For a rich theological account of Atyam’s witness, see my friend Emmanuel Katongole’s new book, The Sacrifice of Africa.)

In northern Uganda, 139 children were abducted from their local school by the Lord’s Resistance Army in 1996. Among them was the 14-year old daughter of Angelina Atyam, a local midwife and nurse. Atyam knew she would never see her daughter again. Thousands of parents before her had bitterly resigned themselves to a brutal reality that could not be changed. She had every reason to be angry, but little room to hope that anything could change.

Still, Atyam could not remain silent. This was her daughter, after all, abducted and abused along with other young women whom she had helped welcome into the world. She knew she had to do something. Her sense of urgency was every bit as strong as that of the KONY 2012 Campaign. But her approach was different.

Atyam founded the Concerned Parents Association, seeking the release of the children while at the same time advocating a different approach to their captors. “Our message is unconditional forgiveness and reconciliation,” she said. “We have absolutely forgiven them. We can turn to a fresh page; we do it for the sake of the children who are alive.” She continued, “I have waited more than three years; some parents even longer. We are tired of war and our children need a better life. Of revenge I would say that we cannot throw petrol on a burning fire; otherwise we would be like them. We can say this because we have been at the center of the pain.”

Atyam was relentless in her love, speaking out against Kony on radio and in print. When he sent threats, she did not waver. Finally, he sent a message to say that he would release her daughter if she would stop her campaign against him. “They are all my children,” she said. “I will not stop until they are all released.”

Atyam’s story is compelling. It is the story of a response inspired by Jesus’ self-sacrificing love, a love that values human dignity, the image of God in every man, woman and child, and a love that transcends the boundaries that often leave us divided.

Hartgrove ends his reflection with these words:

Yes, we are more creative than cynical apathy or violent intervention. We are more creative because we’ve been invited to pray a prayer that’s not ours and live a life that has power beyond our capacity to imagine.

We’ve been invited to pray the prayer of Jesus, the Lord’s prayer. A prayer of resistance, perhaps, but it is not the prayer of an army. This is a prayer of humility and dignity and creativity. A prayer that calls us and this world into a new way of being. It awakens our imaginations to new possibilities – possibilities that move beyond the cycles of violence and injustice that ensnare us. It awakens us to the truly creative act of self-sacrifice.

Isn’t it Jesus, who himself suggests that “Unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit”?

While targeting the world’s celebrities and so-called change makers is one thing, I wonder what this has to do with the way of Jesus and his approach towards power and politics.

Above all, what does it have to do with the way of the cross? This is, after all, the road on which we travel throughout this season of Lent.

Kony 2012? A Christian Response

Thanks Joe Boyd for a clear Christian response

If you’ve been on Facebook or Twitter over the last 24 hours, you have probably seen people talking about the efforts to stop Joseph Kony from the organization called Invisible Children.

Here’s my response after watching the 30-minute film.

Let me start as a filmmaker. It’s an amazing piece of art. Propaganda maybe…but the best kind of propaganda there can be. For those who say the media of film and video can’t actually change the world, this will prove them wrong. This little movie will change national and international policy – and likely bring a tyrant to justice. It is always dangerous to overstate things, but I think this movie is no flash in the pan. It will make it into the history books.

Now as a Christian. The Kingdom come must include justice. Nothing is closer to God’s heart and Jesus’ mission than rescuing the powerless from the hands of oppressors. I have no idea if the filmmakers are Christians, and it really doesn’t matter to me. The passion of their call to action smells of Kingdom come. For that reason, I love it.

The backlash? Shortly after going viral yesterday, the organization behind the video received criticism.

Largely on two fronts:

1.) A perceived lack of integrity with their finances, with many noting that just over 30% of the donations go directly to help those in need. Read the company’s latest financial report here.

2.) The company’s support of the Ugandan military which has a questionable human rights history. Read an article here.

In response to these criticisms, Invisible Children released this statement today.

So, what are we to do? I propose the following:

1. Watch the movie.

It’s a masterpiece regardless of where you land in the end.

2. Do something.

If we trust the filmmaker, that is his ultimate goal – to move you to action. Resolve in this moment that you will do something to come to the aid of children in the world who are being oppressed.

3. Research Invisible Children.

Do your own homework. If you feel comfortable, support them.

4. Donate.

If you are not comfortable with Invisible Children, you can still donate to others who can help. I currently support both Compassion International and Destiny Rescue.

5. Pray for Invisible Children.

If you elect to not support the Kony 2012 movement, you can still pray for justice to be done through their efforts. If nothing else, they have pulled our attention away from ourselves this week. That’s a miracle itself these days.

For me, I hope the movement keeps growing.

And that Joseph Kony is stopped.

You Lost Me

Chances are you know about The Great Departure: Christian young people are leaving the church. Anywhere from 60 to 80 percent of professing believers are going to walk away from their faith by their twenties. Yeah, serious.

So how is the church to respond?

David Kinnaman’s You Lost Me: Why Young Christians Are Leaving Church…and Rethinking Faith explores this very question and sparks ideas as to how we can help young people own their faith. He also takes a look at how this generation is “discontinuously different” from all others before it, and why this fact is important to understand.

Kinnaman offers “six reasons” why the next generation is disengaging from church:
1. Overprotective
2. Shallow
3. Antiscience
4. Repressive
5. Exclusive
6. Doubtless

Church leaders need to read this book non-defensively. Many dropouts exhibit a keen interest in spirituality generally and Jesus Christ particularly. But they don’t like the church–the product, Jesus, is not the issue it is our delivery system – the church- where the problem lies. Alan Hirsch says “you are perfectly designed to get the results you are getting”… what we are doing is not working and we need to re-imagine how we do church.

On this issue, Kinnaman does not merely describe the dropout problem, he prescribes potential ways of moving forward. Kinnaman outlines three things he has learned from his research: “(1) the church needs to reconsider how we make disciples; (2) we need to rediscover Christian calling and vocation; and (3) we need to reprioritize wisdom over information as we seek to know God.” The final chapter surveys Christian leaders–both inside and outside of church ministry–and offers “50 Ideas to Find a Generation.”

I highly recommend You Lost Me to church leaders who are stuck in a poverty of imagination and allow the Holy Spirit to help show us His plans for the church moving forward. This book helps people understand how Mosaics think, why they are disengaged from church, and what might be done to hand on the faith to a new generation.

Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc. Available at your favourite bookseller from Baker Books, a division of Baker Publishing Group“.

 

Start Something That Matters


I have been in dialogue with so many people who have a deep desire to make a difference but are frozen by the daunting task of where to begin. My hope is this book inspires many to see the risk and opportunity that awaits when we follow the God-Sized dreams that lie deep within.

For more than two years, Blake has been working on this project, compiling his favorite anecdotes from TOMS and interviewing amazing entrepreneurs like Scott Harrison, Tony Hsieh, Lauren Bush, and Tim Ferriss, among many others. “My hope is that this book will inspire others to follow their passions and get their ideas off the ground!” – Blake

And of course, because this is TOMS, no product would be complete without giving. With every book purchased, a new children’s book will be provided to a child in need. One for One™. In addition, 50% of the book’s proceeds will go to helping others start something that matters.

 

New monastics share community, offer hope

Too often in our affluent culture we see it noble to come from our fancied homes and air drop into these poor urban neighbourhoods, serve for a few hours and then go back to our fancied homes and call that “caring for the poor”. I think their is a better way, one that reflects the incarnation of Jesus. It would involve giving up our comfort and moving into a place to become agents of redemption. Thanks to Richard, at Together Canada, for posting this great article that was recently in USA Today. This is a great example of the JESUS WAY!

New monastics share community, offer hope

By Caty Hirst, The Tennessean

They aren’t a commune, but they live in community. They are motivated by faith, but they attend different churches. They want to help the homeless, so they bought an apartment complex.

They are new monastics, dedicated to helping the poor, sharing resources and caring for creation. Known as Castanea, meaning chestnut tree in Latin, these young Christians are working to transform a run-down apartment complex into a place of reconciliation.

Castanea’s members moved to Chestnut Hill, Tenn., in South Nashville two years ago, planning to live in close proximity to one another, fulfilling their vision of Christian community and helping others.

But when they found an apartment complex condemned by the city, they decided to buy it. Castanea has since completed the initial cleanup, and the group hopes to begin construction in the next few months, installing new windows, doors and a roof. It still needs $600,000 to complete renovations on the building.

The apartments will enable all of the members to live under one roof — a family of seven, another married couple and the six single adults in the group can fit in four apartments. There, they can easily share meals, prayer, work, study, play and possessions. The remaining 10 units they plan to lease out to the homeless and refugees by coordinating with other organizations fighting homelessness in the city.

By Sanford Myers, The (Nashville) Tennessean

Before Castanea bought it, the Chestnut Hill complex was “one of the worst complexes in South Nashville for crime, drugs, etc.,” one neighbor said.

“The product of this age is for people to choose their own way and be independent, but whenever I go to Haiti to do work down there, people are living in these families in a tribal idea of community, and you realize that our Western idea of self-reliance and independence is a pretty new thing,” said Daniel Burt, a member of Castanea.

Amanda Burt, Daniel’s wife, said she wants to live up to biblical commandments such as loving her neighbors and giving to the poor, and a shared community makes it easier because members are accountable to one another.

Read the rest of the article about the new urban monasticism here.

How To Land Your Kid in Therapy

In the neighbourhood I live in one of the main idols we face is “children”. Yes you heard it right… parents will place kids as their idol, to the extent where their approval as parents is linked to the performance of their children. One would think that the distracted father? The critical mother? The abandoning, devaluing, or chaotic caregivers is the problem but researchers are now seeing “perfect” parents the problem.

Here is a snippet from an article in The Atlantic By LORI GOTTLIEB

“But after working with these patients over time, I came to believe that no florid denial or distortion was going on. They truly did seem to have caring and loving parents, parents who gave them the freedom to “find themselves” and the encouragement to do anything they wanted in life. Parents who had driven carpools, and helped with homework each night, and intervened when there was a bully at school or a birthday invitation not received, and had gotten them tutors when they struggled in math, and music lessons when they expressed an interest in guitar (but let them quit when they lost that interest), and talked through their feelings when they broke the rules, instead of punishing them (“logical consequences” always stood in for punishment). In short, these were parents who had always been “attuned,” as we therapists like to say, and had made sure to guide my patients through any and all trials and tribulations of childhood. As an overwhelmed parent myself, I’d sit in session and secretly wonder how these fabulous parents had done it all.

Until, one day, another question occurred to me: Was it possible these parents had done too much?

Here I was, seeing the flesh-and-blood results of the kind of parenting that my peers and I were trying to practice with our own kids, precisely so that they wouldn’t end up on a therapist’s couch one day. We were running ourselves ragged in a herculean effort to do right by our kids—yet what seemed like grown-up versions of them were sitting in our offices, saying they felt empty, confused, and anxious. Back in graduate school, the clinical focus had always been on how the lack of parental attunement affects the child. It never occurred to any of us to ask, what if the parents are too attuned? What happens to those kids?”

It Is Time We Listen

The church must wake up to the reality that it is declining 5% every year and the largest group vacating church or viewing church as irrelevant are young people. This video helps lay out the thoughts of the next generation and as a church we need to ask… “Are we listening?” “How are we responding?”


 

The Stereotype is True

This explains some things about me except the Harley part…

Apple vs. PC, the stereotypes are true:

(CNN) — Remember those Apple ads that cast the Mac as a 20-something, self-satisfied hipster while the PC was portrayed by an older, square-looking guy in a brown suit?

Well, those characterizations, unfair as they may be, appear to have some truth to them.

An unscientific survey by Hunch, a site that makes recommendations based on detailed user preferences, found that Mac users tend to be younger, more liberal, more fashion-conscious and more likely to live in cities than people who prefer PCs….

The report found that 67% of Mac users have a college or advanced degree, as opposed to 54% of PC users. Mac loyalists are 80% more likely than PC users to be vegetarians, and, unlike PC fans, would rather ride a Vespa scooter than a Harley.

PC users’ tastes trend towards casual clothes, tunafish sandwiches, white wine, Hollywood movies, USA Today and Pepsi. Mac users prefer designer or vintage duds, hummus, red wine, indie films, The New York Times and (we’re not making this up) San Pellegrino Limonata.

Yep that would be me…

 

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