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Our Next Series: Following Jesus

We are about to enter the most exciting season yet in our church plant. God has been leading people to Himself and our core team is ready to take up the call to “be a disciple and make disciples.”

To join with what we sense God is doing our upcoming sermon series is “Following Jesus.”

Periodically we all ask these questions: “What am I here for?” “How should I use my craft or live my passions?” “What is my life calling?” “How can I make the most difference?” These questions resurface as we encounter new life stages as singles, spouses, employees, parents. We come back to them whenever we are disillusioned, challenged, or inspired. Jesus put it like this: “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Lk 9:23). Our primary call is one of Disciple, an apprentice of Jesus. That is our purpose, passion, vocation and calling. Disciples are called to risk, to risk our lives, and to do it daily. Like any apprentice we start out with little knowledge of what we are being called into… so we are going to explore what following Jesus looks like in our everyday rhythms, relationships, and resources.

Join us as we grow in becoming Disciples of Jesus.

Living As An Apprentice?

In preparation for the fall and our series on “Discipleship: Living As Apprentices of Jesus” I have been reading and discussing this issue and as Dallas Willard says its “Great Omission” from our churches.

In an article about Dallas that appeared in Christianity Today, he had this to say: “Generally, what I find is that the ordinary people who come to church are basically running their lives on their own, utilizing ‘the arm of the
flesh’—their natural abilities—to negotiate their way,” he says. “They believe there is a God and they need to check in with him. But they don’t have any sense that he is an active agent in their lives. As a result, they don’t become disciples of Jesus.”

Churches are full of people who attend religious gatherings, may even engage in the spiritual disciplines of prayer and scripture reading but when asked few would ever consider themselves an apprentice of Jesus. Yet the reality is when we proclaim Jesus as Lord our life direction changes, I am now his apprentice in kingdom living. I am learning from him how to lead my life in the Kingdom of the Heavens as he would lead my life if he were I.

Being his apprentice is, therefore, not a matter of special “religious” activities, but an orientation and quality of my entire existence. This is what is meant by Jesus when he says that those who do not forsake all cannot be his disciple. (Luke 14:26 & 33) The emphasis is upon the all. There must be nothing held of greater value than Jesus and his kingdom.

Being alive in Christ means that we can do whatever it is we need to do to increasingly take on his character and live in his power.

My entire life is to be caught up in the life that Jesus Christ himself is now living on earth and will continue throughout eternity. And that is why being his apprentice is the greatest opportunity any human being ever has. 

I love this article by Dallas Willard... (excerpt below) He does a beautiful job of laying a theological foundation for Discipleship. I also recommend reading NT Wrights book Justification for a theology that makes discipleship a necessary reality.

“Now this practice of discipleship in the communities of Christ followers—being with Christ learning to be like him, in part by being with those who are further along on that same path—is what lends realism and hope to the glowing pictures of his people that stand out from the pages of the New Testament. Such passages as Matthew chapters 5-7, John chapters 14-17, Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 13, Ephesians chapters 4-5, and Colossians 3 readily come to mind. These are not just passages stating required behaviours, as laws might do—”Turn the other cheek” and so forth—not a new and sterner legalism. Rather, as expressing what lies “beyond the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees” (Matt. 5:20), they are indications of what life becomes for those who are devoted disciples of Jesus Christ within the fellowship of disciples and under the administration of the Word and of the Holy Spirit. A life of this quality is the “output” of disciples of Jesus who make disciples wherever they go, gather them in Trinitarian reality, and teach them in such a way that they come to do all that Jesus told us to do out of transformed personalities. What is now generally regarded as “normal Christianity” drops away with the “cleaning of the inside of the cup” (Matt. 23:25-26). Discipleship is the status or position within which spiritual (trans)formation occurs.

As we have noted, Post-WW II evangelicalism does not naturally conduct its converts and adherents into a life of discipleship, nor into pervasive Christlikeness of character—with the routine, easy obedience that it entails. What this most recent version of evangelicalism lacks is a theology of discipleship. Specifically, it lacks a clear teaching on how what happens at conversion continues on without break into an ever fuller life in the Kingdom of God. How, to cite Paul’s language, does “the grace of God that brings salvation” discipline us, train us, in such a way that we turn from “ungodliness and worldly lust” to live lives that are “sensible, righteous, and godly in the present world”? (Titus 2:11-14; cp. Phil. 2:12-15) How is it, exactly, that he who gave himself for us also “redeems us from all iniquity and purifies for himself a people of his own who are zealous for good deeds”? (vs. 14; cp. Eph. 2:10) To such questions contemporary evangelicalism has no answer. Its doctrine of grace and salvation prevents it from developing an understanding of discipleship that makes discipleship (“being with Jesus learning to be like him”) a natural part of salvation. The basic genius of evangelicalism as such, however, is never content to leave the matter there.” – Dallas Willard, An Article Titled Discipleship

Rumors of God

After moving to Ottawa to plant a church that brought renewal to our city I was looking for models of church that linked with what God was downloading to me. To be honest I was not looking to the American church for the answers to my questions… so I was shocked and excited when I came across Jon Tyson and Trinity Grace.(I guess his Australian accent helped)  I have had the privilege to hear Jon minister a church planters retreat and have travelled to New York to see first hand what they were doing. He lives this message…

The main text of the book is Habakkuk 3:2 says,  ”LORD, I have heard of your fame; I stand in awe of your deeds, LORD. Repeat them in our day, in our time make them known; in wrath remember mercy.

In a world of such wickedness and pain, it often becomes difficult to see God working. The God of the Bible seems to be nothing more than rumors or fairy tales. Even those who are strong in the faith find themselves looking toward the heavens and crying, “God, are you there? Don’t you see what’s going on down here?” We long for a change. We plead for God to make Himself known to us. Still, we’re often left to wonder if the concepts in the Bible are little more than fanciful dreams.

These two Aussie friends (Darren is the teaching pastor of Willow Creek Community Church and Jon is the founding pastor of a collection of neighbourhood churches in New York City called Trinity Grace Church) combined together to write about the hope of the future of the Church in North America. It’s not pie-in-the-sky romanticized wishful thinking; its realistic hope rooted in reality of a broken world and the promises of a loving and powerful God.

Each chapter defines a rumor; i.e., abundant life, generosity, love, community and justice. Pastors Darren and Jon take you on a journey which will compel you to love and serve others. These Aussies are cultural acupuncturists, penetrating the cultural rhythms that have come to define us and bringing the gospel below the skin to bring about change. If for nothing else, chapter three – exploring rumours of generosity – is worth the price of the book alone. Great stuff.

This book is hopeful, passionate and compelling. If you’ve ever heard Jon or Darren preach you know what I am talking about. They are contagious. They don’t just want to tell you what you should do but rather inviting you to join God in believing Him beyond logic and into faith.

It’s a gift to be able to exegete the Scriptures in a way that makes them come alive. To be able to do that and also exegete culture in an eye-opening way is even more rare. Rumors of God does just that. Today it’s far too easy for people to mindlessly go through the motions. Whitehead and Tyson remind us of a life more than just going through the motions…a promise of life to the full – pick up this book and live it out!

View the trailer to the book.

“Book has been provided courtesy of Thomas Nelson and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc. Available at your favourite bookseller from Thomas Nelson”. 

Family Vacation

We are home after a relaxing, fun-filled 3 weeks away. Here are some of our fun moments…

Best friends reunited

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yep that hurts the ole back

Lots of beach time!

 

Camping with friends!

 

Meeting Cinderella!Lots of time in the pool to get away from the Florida heat

 

How every night ended

She did it! The Tower of Terror! The most daring in the family...

 

 

Thanks Walt!

DREAM

I just returned from the Every Nation conference in Orlando and our family’s Disney Adventure. We had a great time going from park to park acquiring as many fast-passes as possible; enjoying all the rides we could possibly get on before the heat and humidity became overwhelming and we had to retreat to the hotel pool to cool off. Okay let’s be honest, it is difficult being in Disney and keeping the family focused on a conference. The theme of the conference was “Dream”… which my kids took as permission to dream about all they were missing at Disney while they were sitting at the conference. Here is how it started with Walt…

All started by a Mouse

“I only hope that we don’t lose sight of one thing – that it was all started by a mouse.” - Walt Disney

He was talking about the mouse that everybody knows, loves, and adores: Mickey Mouse. Mickey was created in 1928, and appeared for the first time on screen in “Steamboat Willie” in November 1928. Still children everywhere are so familiar with this lively and lovely mouse.

With Mickey Mouse’s success, Walt added supporting characters like Donald Duck, Goofy, and Pluto. Mickey and his friends have made millions of children (including ourselves) smile, giggle, and laugh. They are our friends whom have accompanied us through our childhood and will continue to do so with our children and most absolutely will accompany our children’s children as well. Such is the magnificent and powerful dream of Walt Disney coming true even long after he passed away. The dream that he once envisioned has continued growing and will be unending as long as there is imagination left in the world.

How this relates to the “Church”

As I was engaged in worship or listening to messages  by Ed Stetzer or Lisa Bevere my mind was not totally present but dreaming; dreaming what could be if the church was awakened to the reality of God now.

Last week I noticed something in my kids. They were constantly dreaming of things someone else created. Last week it was Mickey and Donald and this week it will be water-slides and shopping. Other “things” have taken captive my kids imagination. I wonder if the church is not much different from my kids, we dream others dreams. What would the “church” look like if our imaginations or dreams were captured by God.

Dreams like… What Heaven on earth would look like?  What disciples of Jesus would do? Living as if God’s Kingdom really was present and tangible. Maybe what we need is for God to set our imaginations free!

The prophet Habakkuk lived in a time when the future of God’s people was hanging in the balance yet he prayed with God’s imagination:

Lord I have heard your fame; I stand in awe of your deeds, Lord.
Renew them in our day, in our time make them known; in wrath remember mercy.

 

I believe God is writing an epic, redemptive story that he invites every one of us into. May we echo the prayer of Habakkuk, dream God’s dreams and see the church rise up in our day and our time. My prayer is for your imaginations to be set free so you can dream the dreams of God!

 

Are You Playing Whack a Mole?

We all strive for a balanced life, one where work, family, recreation, and spirituality have its place. Unfortunately in the pursuit of balance we end up playing whack a mole. You know the game… the one where the mole pops up and we need to beat it down before the next one pops up. Often this is what balance looks like for most of us… I need to go hang out with friends before my house tasks or work obligations or family demands or church  responsibilities pop up. And when other things pop up before the other task is completed we get this common, yet unfriendly, emotion called “guilt”.

For a long time I embraced the wrong pursuit… personal success, balance in life and ministry, the best strategy for church growth, great marriage, being a good dad. True confession… often times I can even see “mission” creep in and become an idol. Take a “A” type, task oriented personality and a world that is increasingly hard to reach with the gospel and you have just hung a red rag in front of a bull. All these things are good but they should never be our firsts.

Every summer I take a shift in my reading and instead of theology and strategy I read works that benefit my soul. I just completed Ian Cron’s Chasing Francis and have been encouraged and challenged by his way of life. Here was a man who placed his relationship with Christ as his primary objective and in the end was incredibly balanced, accomplishing great things for God and attaining the status of Saint.

This article by Skye Jethani echoes some of what I have been feeling. It was only a few years ago I felt incredibly passionate to change for the world for God, but didn’t feel so ‘close to God’ in relational terms. These days I feel great intimacy in my relationship with God, but I am less motivated to chase down every possible ‘missional opportunity’. The crazy reality is I find myself having more missional opportunities.

What’s with that hey?

Some of it is the conditioning that Jethani writes of in his article, some of it is a maturing faith yet most of it is a shift in priorities. As Tim Keller often says, “Jesus has become my over mastering positive passion”.

I still feel a deep sense of calling to be a missionary/apostle but these days I see it working out differently in how I live. Here is an excerpt of the article:

“missionalism.” It is “the belief that the worth of one’s life is determined by the achievement of a grand objective.” He continues:

Missionalism starts slowly and gains a foothold in the leader’s attitude. Before long the mission controls almost everything: time, relationships, health, spiritual depth, ethics, and convictions. In advanced stages, missionalism means doing whatever it takes to solve the problem. In its worst iteration, the end always justifies the means. The family goes; health is sacrificed; integrity is jeopardized; God-connection is limited.

What I have witnessed in the lives of many college students is the early symptoms of missionalism. The virus had been introduced to them in childhood and incubated by well-intentioned churches, ministries, schools, and the wider evangelical subculture. And with graduation looming the students were feeling the pressure. It was after all their first opportunity to actually prove their worth through achievement. – Skye Jethani

So I’ve come to embrace the reality that my place as a pastor is not to get people to do more for God. Rather, I believe my responsibility is to give others a ravishing vision, rooted in Scripture and modeled by my own example, of a life lived it communion with God. And there, as they abide in him, calling will happen. The Lord of the harvest will call and send workers. And he will call others to live quietly and work with their hands. Some may be plumbers, and others lawyers, and some he will call to be suburban moms. And all of their work will be holy, good,  if rooted in communion with God, truly radical.

Adventure or Quest?

Definition of ADVENTURE

: an undertaking usually involving danger and unknown risks : the encountering of risks <the spirit of adventure>

: an exciting or remarkable experience <an adventure in exotic dining>

We have done the hard work of cultivating a life of safety and security, so we have had to create something to spice up our boring lives – adventure. Adventure is really not that risky… yes the bungy chord may break, the parachute not open, the roller coaster goes off its tracks, or a Shark may attack but over all you are placing your trust in others who, you hope, have done their safety checks.

Even if you are not big on adventure you may sit in the comfort of your home and vicariously live through others who are. In our wake up – shower – get dressed  - commute to work – work – commute home – have dinner – watch television/ take kids to sports/read a book/have friends over – go to bed lives, we are dying for a little adventure. Maybe you dream about sky diving, travelling to a far off country, scuba diving, climbing a mountain or  heli-skiing. So whats the problem?

Adventure is a there and back again experience. It is full of thrills and expectations, something to spice up your life but then you come home to your place of comfort waiting for your next adventure… NOTHING CHANGES! I know many a young people who live this way… they work for adventure. But I have also noticed something remarkable… their lives don’t change. The adventure may enrich their life but it does not change it, at least not at a “soul” level.

What we need to do is engage on a quest…

Definition of QUEST

1. a search or pursuit made in order to find or obtain something: To search, seek for or pursue. a quest for knowledge.
2. an adventurous expedition undertaken to secure or achieve something: the quest of the holy grail.

A quest is not something you choose but it comes to you, it is a call, a requirement, a responsibility. When you begin the journey you have this hunch you will never be back again to what was. And if you do return to the same place it is different because you have been transformed. In a quest you die… you die to all that you thought was important, significant and something new emerges to take over the driving passion of your life. It requires you to leave the place of comfort and security and to trust in the God that CALLS YOU. We see this lived out beautifully in the story of Abraham in Genesis 12 or Tolkein’s movie,  The Lord of the Rings.

The Christian life is a quest not an adventure. It is not an add on to your life that gives you a little push to get through your week it is a call you receive, a call that reshapes you, a call where you once you take one step on the journey you quickly realize you can’t go back… you have been captured by passion, desire, longing, love… you have been transformed.

If your church experience has become a civil religion that affirms your lifestyle you are missing the gospel. The gospel is a call to a new way of life. A call to engage on a journey of transformation. A quest where all things become new.

If you are looking for an adventure I suggest you don’t choose Jesus but if you want to embark on a Quest like our spiritual fathers – Abraham, Moses, David, Peter, Paul – you will need Jesus!

May you give up comfort and the fleeting joy adventure brings and embark on a QUEST with Jesus that will forever change your life.

New monastics share community, offer hope

Too often in our affluent culture we see it noble to come from our fancied homes and air drop into these poor urban neighbourhoods, serve for a few hours and then go back to our fancied homes and call that “caring for the poor”. I think their is a better way, one that reflects the incarnation of Jesus. It would involve giving up our comfort and moving into a place to become agents of redemption. Thanks to Richard, at Together Canada, for posting this great article that was recently in USA Today. This is a great example of the JESUS WAY!

New monastics share community, offer hope

By Caty Hirst, The Tennessean

They aren’t a commune, but they live in community. They are motivated by faith, but they attend different churches. They want to help the homeless, so they bought an apartment complex.

They are new monastics, dedicated to helping the poor, sharing resources and caring for creation. Known as Castanea, meaning chestnut tree in Latin, these young Christians are working to transform a run-down apartment complex into a place of reconciliation.

Castanea’s members moved to Chestnut Hill, Tenn., in South Nashville two years ago, planning to live in close proximity to one another, fulfilling their vision of Christian community and helping others.

But when they found an apartment complex condemned by the city, they decided to buy it. Castanea has since completed the initial cleanup, and the group hopes to begin construction in the next few months, installing new windows, doors and a roof. It still needs $600,000 to complete renovations on the building.

The apartments will enable all of the members to live under one roof — a family of seven, another married couple and the six single adults in the group can fit in four apartments. There, they can easily share meals, prayer, work, study, play and possessions. The remaining 10 units they plan to lease out to the homeless and refugees by coordinating with other organizations fighting homelessness in the city.

By Sanford Myers, The (Nashville) Tennessean

Before Castanea bought it, the Chestnut Hill complex was “one of the worst complexes in South Nashville for crime, drugs, etc.,” one neighbor said.

“The product of this age is for people to choose their own way and be independent, but whenever I go to Haiti to do work down there, people are living in these families in a tribal idea of community, and you realize that our Western idea of self-reliance and independence is a pretty new thing,” said Daniel Burt, a member of Castanea.

Amanda Burt, Daniel’s wife, said she wants to live up to biblical commandments such as loving her neighbors and giving to the poor, and a shared community makes it easier because members are accountable to one another.

Read the rest of the article about the new urban monasticism here.

Dare To Be A Disciple

I love Dallas and appreciate his thoughts on the often misunderstood topic of discipleship. This is a helpful article, full of wisdom and a must read for those living the biblical command to “go and make disciples”… inviting people into this Journey of becoming Disciples – Apprentices of Jesus.

Being a disciple or apprentice of Jesus is a definite and obvious kind of thing. To make a mystery of it is to misunderstand it. There is no good reason why people should ever be in doubt as to whether they themselves are his students or not. And the evidence will always be quite clear as to whether any other individual is his student, though we may be in no position to collect that evidence and rarely would have any legitimate occasion to gather or use it.

Now this may seem very startling, even shocking, to many in our religious culture, where there is a long tradition of doubting, or possibly even of being unable to tell, whether or not one is a Christian. The underlying issue in that tradition has always been whether or not one was going to “make the final cut.” And that has, in turn, often been thought a matter of whether God has “chosen you” and you are therefore “among the elect.” Or else it is a matter of whether or not you have sinned too much, or are good enough. Needless to say, those would be difficult questions to answer with much assurance — perhaps impossible to answer at all, because we are in no position to inspect the books of heaven.

It would take us far out of our path to enter into those hoary controversies. But fortunately there is no need. It is almost universally conceded today that you can be a Christian without being a disciple. And one who actually is an apprentice and co-laborer with Jesus in his or her daily existence is sure to be a “Christian” in every sense of the word that matters. The very term Christian was explicitly introduced in the New Testament — where, by the way, it is used only three times — to apply to disciples when they could no longer be called Jews, because many kinds of gentiles were now part of them.

Now, people who are asked whether they are apprentices of a leading politician, musician, lawyer or screenwriter would not need to think a second to respond. Similarly for those asked if they are studying Spanish or bricklaying with someone unknown to the public. It is hardly something that would escape one’s attention. The same is all the more true if asked about discipleship to Jesus.

But if asked whether they are good apprentices of whatever person or line of work is concerned, they very well might hesitate. They might say no. Or yes. Asked if they could be better students, they would probably say yes. And all of this falls squarely within the category of being a disciple or apprentice. For to be a disciple in any area or relationship is not to be perfect. One can be a very raw and incompetent beginner and still be a disciple.

It is a part of the refreshing realism of the Gospels that we often find Jesus doing nothing less than “bawling out” his disciples. That, however, is very far from rejecting them. It is, in fact, a way of being faithful to them, just as chastisement is God’s way of showing that someone is his child (Heb. 12:7-10). A good “master” takes his apprentices seriously and therefore takes them to task as needed.

A disciple or apprentice, then, is simply someone who has decided to be with another person, under appropriate conditions, in order to become capable of doing what that person does or to become what that person is.

How does this apply to discipleship to Jesus? What is it, exactly, that he, the incarnate Lord, does? What, if you wish, is he “good at”? The answer is found in the Gospels: he lives in the kingdom of God, and he applies that kingdom for the good of others and even makes it possible for them to enter it themselves. The deeper theological truths about his person and his work do not detract from this simple point. It is what he calls us to by saying, “Follow me.”…

That my actual life is the focus of my apprenticeship to Jesus is crucial. Knowing this can help deliver us from the genuine craziness that the current distinction between “full-time Christian service” and “part-time Christian service” imposes on us. For a disciple of Jesus is not necessarily one devoted to doing specifically religious things as that is usually understood.

To repeat, I am learning from Jesus how to lead my life, my whole life, my real life. Note, please, I am not learning from him how to lead his life. His life on earth was a transcendently wonderful one. But it has now been led. Neither I nor anyone else, even himself, will ever lead it again. And he is, in any case, interested in my life, that very existence that is me. There lies my need. I need to be able to lead my life as he would lead it if he were I.

So as his disciple I am not necessarily learning how to do special religious things, either as a part of “full-time service” or as a part of “part-time service.” My discipleship to Jesus is, within, clearly definable limits, not a matter of what I do, but of how I do it. And it covers everything, “religious” or not.”"

- Excerpt from “How to Make Disciples” by Dallas Willard

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Fathering In The Image of God

This Fathers day I am reminded of my Dad; a great dad who modelled his fathering after Jesus. Thanks for the Godly example Dad, I love you! Here is a reminder for all of the Dads today to be a little more incarnational in their fathering.

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